Sunday, July 5, 2009

THE Most Vital 'Government Created and Funded' Resource for the Missing


The National Missing and Unidentified Persons System (NamUs) is the first national repository for missing persons and unidentified decedent records.

Okay, I am strangely both really excited about, yet really frustrated by this...

Excited because...my word! It's so clear! Finally, our government is truly doing something for the families of the missing! They have answered the many fervent pleas and as a direct result NamUs has been created!

We don't even have to spend additional time on fundraising efforts for it! It is government funded! (thus the .gov in NamUs.gov)

So...how and why in the world doesn't EVERY SINGLE CREDIBLE MISSING PERSONS AGENCY AND RESOURCE not have NamUs clearly displayed and included on their site, materials, etc.????!!!

If we truly care about one another, if we truly do have these hearts that break for the family members of the missing, if we truly want to bring them home...then...we should be sharing NamUs with those of the missing in the highest decibel manner possible! RIGHT?!

Because...what really is the point in having a billion albeit wonderful missing persons agencies if they aren't able to work together for the greater good?

That's one thing I so adore about Peace4 the Missing...the ability its members to be "one, sole agenda-free" by not putting self-promotion in the forefront...but rather consistently and strongly uniting together, to truly care and most effectively work towards the common goal we all share...to bring home the Missing...

Saturday, July 4, 2009

Hope Remains After 54 Years

Lost Toddler -

Hope Remains After 54 Years By Todd Matthews

Details in the 1955 disappearance of 22 month old Frederick Andrew Holmes have been added to the Doe Network database.


http://www.doenetwork.org/cases/4109dmny.html


Freddie was last seen by his mother walking along the driveway of his home at approximately 9 a.m. in Grahamsville, New York on May 25, 1955. The boy had curly blond hair and was wearing a pair of faded brown corduroy overalls with a long sleeve polo shirt.


A 1,000 man search for the toddler took place that included local officials, volunteers, a blood hound and helicopter. Despite the massive effort, no sign of the child was found.


It seems most likely he was taken by a hungry animal or perished from exposure, but in the bizarre world of cold cases anything is possible. Might Freddie have been taken by a human predator, raised by strangers and still be alive today? He has biological family members that still cling to hope.


As ancient as this case might seem, if Freddie were to be alive today, he would have been celebrating his 56th birthday.


With Freddie's siblings still alive and looking, chances of building a family reference DNA profile are very good. But there must be a source for comparison if it is to be of value. The family had considered the possibility he might have been the infamous "Boy In The Box" --


http://www.doenetwork.org/cases/4umpa.html


On February 25, 1957, the severely beaten remains of a 4 to 6 year old male child were found in a cardboard box in Philadelphia. Two years later, the age range and description line up in what might be a long shot.


The Boy in The Box was exhumed in the late 1990's for DNA testing - and a Mitochondrial profile does exist. He was then re-interred into a Philadelphia tomb as "America's Unknown Child".


The Initial inquiry by the Holmes family with New York officials did not give a definite conclusion. But follow up details with Pennsylvania officials are ongoing.


Is it possible that these cases are connected? Stranger things have happened. In any event, it's finally a step forward after more than 50 years. More resources


www.NamUs.gov


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Awesome, Government Funded Resource for Missing Adults!

Welcome to NamUs Missing Persons

This site provides an opportunity for families, law enforcement agencies and investigators to search nationwide for missing persons using a variety of powerful search features. Anyone may search the database, but by registering in the system both law enforcement professionals and the general public will also be able to:

  • Add new missing persons cases
  • Add physical and circumstantial details, photographs, dental contacts and other critical pieces of information to a case
  • Create and print missing persons posters
  • Track multiple cases as information is added to the system

With your help, we can increase the number of missing persons cases solved each year providing closure for families and law enforcement officials nationwide.


Watch a 6-minute video: NamUs Behind the Scenes: How It Works, Why It Matters


This site is part of NamUs, the National Missing and Unidentified Persons System. In the near future, this database will be linked to search for matches against the Unidentified Decedent Database.


To enter a Missing Persons report into the NamUs database, please log in or register as a new user using the button to the left.


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Tuesday, June 30, 2009

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Monday, June 29, 2009

Proof that even Just One Single Idiot, All on His Own, could potentially "Change the World"

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Sunday, June 28, 2009

What to do When the Police Leave: Dealing with Traumatic Loss

The following chapter is the complete text excerpted from What to do When the Police Leave: A Guide to the First Days of Traumatic Loss, by Bill Jenkins.

How to Help a Friend in Grief

As much as we would like to avoid unpleasantness in our lives, sometimes it is inescapable. Instead, we must learn how to grieve in healthy ways and work through our difficulties. If you are wondering what you can do to help a friend who is in intense mourning, here are some suggestions:

bulletRecognize that everyone grieves at their own pace. Some progress rather quickly, some move very slowly. We never move at the speed that others think we should. Help us take one day at a time.

bulletKeep us company and be there for us. You don’t need to say anything profound or do anything earthshaking. Often, your greatest help is your quiet presence and simplest deeds.

bulletMake suggestions and initiate contact and activities. It is important for you to respect our privacy and give us some time alone, but we also may not have the energy to structure our lives right after a traumatic loss. We may have to rely on others to think of things that we don’t know to ask for.

bulletProvide a safe environment for us to show strong emotions. It may be very painful, but it can be of enormous help.

bulletHelp us remember good things. Tell us your memories of our loved one as you listen to us tell you ours. If we begin to show our emotions outwardly, you have not upset us, you have simply enabled us to be a bit more open in your presence.

bulletBe there after the first wave is over. Make the effort to call, to come by, to help us out six months and even a year down the road. Crowds may be difficult for us. Shopping and holidays will be overwhelming. Offer your help. If we’re not up to a visit we’ll let you know, but let us know you remember and are there for us.

bulletListen to us. We need to tell our story over and over in order to process our grief. We may even say outrageous things. Don’t judge us by what we say or how we feel. We have a lot to work through, and in time, we will come to the answers that are right for us.

bulletBe careful of cliches, religious platitudes, or easy answers. You may not be able to help us with certain issues right now, so don’t be too quick to share your opinions if we say something you don’t agree with. We need time to work things out on our own.

bulletBe sensitive to our needs, be patient, have confidence and believe in us. We will get better, we will experience healing; but it will take some time, and it can be rough going for much of the way.

bulletBe on the look-out for destructive behaviors. Traumatic loss can lead some people into depression, alcohol or drug abuse. We may need you to keep an eye on us while things are especially tough.

bulletHelp us find humorous diversion. Laughter is good medicine.

bulletBe willing to do difficult things with us. We may need someone to sit with us in court; we may need a safe place to rage; we may need help with the funeral or afterwards. There may be some hard times ahead and facing them alone can be terrifying.

bulletHelp us find ways to bring good things out of the bad. It is important that our loved one be remembered and memorialized.

bulletFind out about grief. Read some of the books that are available. The more you know, the better able you will be to help us.

bulletHelp us to find support and inspiration. Often, a poem or song will speak to us in ways that no one else can. Also, talking to someone who has survived a similar loss can help us realize that we are not alone in our grief.

We have to go through this valley in order to get to the other side. Dealing with grief cannot be avoided. Help us get through this as well as we are able. Your true friendship and companionship, your kindness and patience can help us get our lives back together.

We will experience some level of grief over our loved one’s loss for the rest of our lives. Some days will simply be better than others. One day, we hope to reach a point where our good days outnumber the bad. That will be a major milestone for us.

Thank you for being here for us.

Saturday, June 27, 2009

Silent Observer focuses on the victims and their families

Silent Observer begins airing new ads on unsolved Michigan murders

Posted by Cassie Foss | The Grand Rapids Press June 25, 2009 15:49PM

Michelle DeMaagd holds a picture of her sister, Renee Pagel, in a scene from a Silent Observer ad. Pagel was stabbed to death in 2006

GRAND RAPIDS -- In 1996, Sherry Stewart Brown's parents, Columbus and Vera Stewart, went to her apartment on College Avenue NE carrying her favorite dessert, a peach cobbler, to celebrate her 33rd birthday.

When her father returned to the apartment three days later, the pie was half-eaten. And Brown had vanished.

It would be two years before her body was discovered in a ditch near Butterworth Avenue SW, and another four before it was identified and released to her family for burial.

"In my heart, I would think I heard her walking across the back porch," said Vera Stewart, who hopes for a break in the unsolved death that has them determined to find justice.

"We stand here today, opening our hearts back up," she said. "Somebody took my daughter's body and lay it in that ditch, and as long as I got breath in my body to speak for my daughter, we will do that."

Now, Silent Observer is hoping to reach out through a new series of public service announcements that feature members of the community who have lost loved ones to homicide, including the Stewarts. The group offers up to $1,000 for tips that lead to arrests and trials for unsolved crimes.

The service announcements, which began to air Thursday, were a joint effort between Silent Observer, Conqueror's support group and Delayed Justice, a Web site that tells the stories of open and unsolved homicides in Michigan.

Carolyn Priester started the group, "Conquerors," for survivors of violence and loved ones of murder victims or other violent crimes. Her 34-year-old son, Lee Randolph Priester, was shot and killed July 28, 2007 outside his house on Lafayette Avenue SE. No one has been arrested in the slaying.

Priester helped contact the families represented in the announcements.

"We strengthen one another," said Priester of the group. "These unsolved murders have left a void. Closure is partial when you find the person responsible, but we want justice."

David Schock, with Delayed Justice, produced the videos for Silent Observer at no charge.

"The Conquerors support group spoke to my heart," Schock said.

Mother-of-three Renee Pagel, 41, was found dead Aug. 5, 2006, of multiple stab wounds in her Courtland Township home.

"Revisiting it is not like going back because you're always there," said Pagel's sister, Michelle DeMaagd of Grand Rapids, who is featured in one of the announcements.

Police named Michael Pagel, her estranged husband who now is living in Prudenville with the couple's three children, as the only suspect. Michael Pagel has not been charged with any crime, and through his attorney he has maintained his innocence.

DeMaagd said there are always leads, but that there is not enough evidence to bring the case to trial.

"She deserves justice," said DeMaagd. Of the service announcement, she said: "It was difficult to do, but we definitely appreciate the opportunity to get a murderer off the streets."


The victims and their families

Mother Carolyn Priester started the group "Conquerors" for survivors of violence and loved ones of murder victims or other violent crimes. Her 34-year-old son, Lee Randolph Priester, was shot and killed July 28, 2007 outside his house on Lafayette Avenue SE. No one has been arrested in the slaying.

Renee Pagel, 41, was found dead Aug. 5, 2006, after suffering multiple stab wounds while in her Courtland Township home. Pagel's sister, Michelle DeMaagd, of Grand Rapids, is featured in the service announcement.

"She deserves justice," DeMaagd said. "It was difficult to do, but we definitely appreciate the opportunity to get a murderer off the streets.

Sherry Stewart Brown disappeared from her Grand Rapids apartment three days after her 33rd birthday in August 1996. A body thought to be Brown's was found in 1998 near Butterworth Avenue SW, but it was too decomposed to conclude how she died, authorities said. A long identification process began and in 2002, Brown's parents, Columbus and Vera Stewart, finally received the confirmation to bury their daughter. But Brown's cause of death still is undetermined and there are no suspects in her death.

Fran Molson still is looking for help to find her son's killer. Richard Dannah, 19, was at a party May 31, 2008 at 449 Adams St. SE when he was shot. "There were other kids in the backyard at the party -- they know what happened," Molson said.

Two masked gunmen in a minivan gunned down Willie E. Benson, 19, in the early hours of July 30, 2005 at Godwin Avenue SE and Dickinson Street. Relatives like Benson's sister, Pamela Webster, who is featured in the service announcement, still have no answers.

Chad McElwee, 34, was killed May 21, 2008 while sitting in his truck near Pleasant Street SE and Cass Avenue. Police said McElwee was slain by bullets meant for his unidentified passenger but no one has been arrested. The victim's mother, Patricia McElwee, took part in the service announcements.

E-mail Cassie Foss: cfoss@grpress.com




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