Showing posts with label actively-aware. Show all posts
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Friday, October 17, 2008

Missing Since March: Kelli Renee Rice

Missing Since March: Kelli Renee Rice

Booneville, AR - Young mother Kelli Renee Rice, 25, has been missing since March 2, 2008, but you wouldn’t know it from reading the papers. There’s no widespread search for Kelli. No press coverage, no t-shirts or angel-winged photoshopped pictures circling the internet or the globe. Nobody, it seems, really cares that much what happened to Kelli Rice - except her family. Kelli’s mother, Rhonda, has asked us to feature Kelli on our site in hopes that someone - anyone - will know what has happened to her.

Kelli Rice was born on August 1, 1983. A tall, slender girl with light brown hair, she’d run with the same small group of friends since grade school. She hung out with them, partied with them, did drugs with them at times. Kelli was not a saint, her family will tell you. But she was a sweet girl, and trusting - sometimes too trusting, they believe.

Kelli’s son was born two years ago, after she completed drug rehabilitation in Missouri. Now two, her baby’s father is in prison, so he has an alibi for the night Kelli went missing. Kelli had been to see him in Oak Grove, Missouri the week before she disappeared. When she got back to Arkansas, it was party time again.

The following timeline comes from the family’s own investigation of Kelli’s disappearance. At this time, nobody has been named a suspect or even a person of interest in the investigation, and the family believes that local law enforcement has simply decided not to look for Kelli. All information from here out comes from Kelli’s family and friends.

On February 29, Kelli went to a friend’s house. Sometime during that evening, her friends Beronica Terry and Terry Luther Jr. met her at the house and the three of them went to visit a man named Steven Long at his trailer near Ione. Steven Long and Kelli had an on-again, off-again relationship, and Long was reportedly upset that Kelli refused to see him exclusively.

The next day, Kelli, Steven Long and a guy named Aaron Henry went to Ft. Smith, Arkansas to sell drugs to Kelli’s cousin, Mary Foster. Mary says that she bought the drugs the evening of March 1. Then Kelli, Long and Henry left her house between 2:00 and 2:30 on the morning of March 2. The trio said they were headed back to Steven Long’s place.

One man later told deputies that he had seen Kelli Rice walking in the woods near Ione about twelve hours after the group left Mary Foster’s home. He spotted a woman who he believes may have beenKelli at about two in the afternoon of March 2. Days later, Kelli’s jacket was found nearby. There was no blood on the jacket, but there did appear to be marks on the back that looked like whoever was wearing the jacket had been dragged across the ground.

When Kelli didn’t show up to get her baby, her family called to report her missing and deputies questioned the people with whom she was last seen. Aaron Henry reportedly told the investigating officer that Kelli had “freaked out” on the way back from Mary Foster’s house. Henry allegedly said that Kelli had jumped out the window of Long’s pick-up truck and they “never saw her again”.

The problem with his story is that Kelli traditionally rode in the middle of the front seat of that truck, and that window didn’t work without using pliers to crank it. In order to jump out the window, Kelli would have had to jump over Steven Long, use the pliers to crank the window, and get out without anyone stopping her.

Beronica Terry told Kelli’s family that she gave a statement to the police saying that Steven Long had asked her to beat up Kelli. Terry Luther Jr. told the family that Steven Long had offered to pay him and Beronica to bring Kelli to Steven’s house.

And Steven Long, for his part, seems to have left the Ione area himself. Kelli’s family says that Long uses several aliases and has talked a lot, but his story changes each time. In fact, he dropped off Kelli’s purse with her family shortly after she went missing. At this point, Kelli’s mother Rhonda believes that Long and Henry murdered Kelli on the night of March 2.

Kelli’s clothes were found in March near a campfire in the woods near Ione. No other hard evidence appears to have been found. Kelli has not called or shown up for her son - actions her family says are unthinkable for her if she is still alive. The family has received phone calls stating that Kelli’s body has been found or was in a well - one area well was drained to search, but Kelli’s body was not in it. Local law enforcement officials have not commented on this case except to say that Kelli’s body has not been found and that they are treating this case as a missing persons investigation.

If you know Kelli Renee Rice or have any information about her condition or whereabouts, please call the Logan County Arkansas Sheriff’s Office at (479)963-3271.
http://www.dreamindemon.com/2008/09/26/missing-since-march-kelli-renee-rice/


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Thursday, October 16, 2008

10 Avoidable Mistakes for Divorced Parents

Ten Mistakes Parent's often make when going through a divorce that may potentially have a lasting negative impact on their children.  Please watch this video and learn what NOT to do.


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Collaborative Divorce - "Healthy" Divorce Alernative?

The following tools are designed to help you better understand your divorce options. Court appearances are costly in time, money and emotion because the adversarial court system often pits one family member against another. With the help of CCD Professionals, you can resolve your situation in the best way possible for your entire family, preserving your relationships and financial resources.

 Is Collaborative Divorce Right for You?
A set of questions to find out if you should pursue a cooperative rather than a litigated divorce. 

 What are Your Dicorce Needs?
CCD can help you with decisions about your marriage, filing for divorce or separation, negotiating issues, working on a marital settlement agreement, or modifying an agreement post-divorce

 Free Orientation with a CCD Professional
To learn more about the CCD approach, any CCD Professional can provide you with a Free Orientation by phone or e-mail. 

 Collaborative Divorce Assessment
Working with a case manager is recommended for those who need more in-depth evaluation in order to identify and consider their options and issues. This is a for fee service with a CCD professional. 

 The Glossary
Provides more information and definitions of terms, disciplines, and professions.

http://www.nocourtdivorce.com/tools.phtml

PTA Dads, it's a Good thing

Posted by Kevin OShea on Thu, Aug 28, 2008 at 7:42 AM

Back to school for dads, too?

As a full-time father, I've spent many hours volunteering in my children's schools and serving on (or chairing) PTA committees. I've commented before on the relative absence of fathers in school, but an article in the current issue of Instructor magazine (written for elementary school teachers) does a better job than I ever could of defining the problem.

Kyle Pruett, a professor at Yale and a fomer keynote speaker at the Midwest Fathers Conference, is quoted as saying that "Many men, myself included, do not feel welcome in schools. There are no posters on the wall or magazines in the front office that make me feel like this is my place."

Why is this? "The schools say the fathers don't come because they're so busy, they're working," Pruett says. "And the fathers say, 'Nobody asks, of course I'd come.'"

Ron Klinger, founder of the nonprofit Center for Successful Fathering, says he faced resistance when he began running school-site fathering workshops in the 1990s. "We discovered that school teachers actually preferred to have mothers there rather than the fathers. Who knows why?" He provides the answer: "Schools are matriarchal."

For sure. Women outnumber men on PTA membership roles 9-1, and moms were nearly three times more likely than dads to volunteer at school. (In single-parent families, mothers were only slightly more involved than fathers.)

This father absence is a shame, because fathers' presence in schools can do wonders for kids. "We know that when fathers are positively engaged in children's lives, a lot of positive things happen," according to Pruett. "They are better behaved. They do better in school. They are less likely to use physical violence." Plus, children with fathers who are involved at school are more likely to get better grades, participate in extracurricular activities, and they are less likely to be disciplined.

http://info.detnews.com/redesign/blogs/dadsblog/index.cfm?blogid=438


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Kids Helping Kids, Little Activists doing BIG Things


 

The Coins for Change campaign in December 2007 empowered the children who play Club Penguin to effect real change in the world.


More than 2.5 million children donated in excess of 2 billion virtual coins they earned playing games on Club Penguin to support the environment, children's health or children in developing countries. Through their virtual donations, the kids directed how much of a $1 million cash donation went to three charitable organizations chosen to represent those areas.




Found on Club Penguin


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Wednesday, October 15, 2008

This is Spousal Abuse...and it's Caught on Tape




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30 Ideas to Help You Start Working Through the Web

Entertaining the notion of working through the web? Here are 30 ideas to consider.

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It's Blog Action Day Today! 2008 Poverty

12hr BAD08 BlogTalkRadio
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BlogTalkRadio will host a special 12-hourlive radio show from noon to midnight Eastern (New York) time on Wednesday, October 15. Get call-in and prize info here(yes, there are prizes for good listeners!).

 

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Tuesday, October 14, 2008

The big "C" - What it's All About


Here we are at this day that perhaps was always inevitable...I accept what path we're on. There's no longer any point in rehashing what might have been.

But this isn't our "The End" ~ we will always be a "we" ~ the miracles we made are living, breathing, walking proof of that. Two angelic reminders are where the focus should be.

Looking at our girls, seeing the chocolate brown color of your eyes forever married to the almond shape of mine...nothing else seems to matter anymore. I no longer doubt whether or not we were ever "meant to" be.

They, our dependent little beings, need us to be the "Mommy" and the "Daddy" ~ to not "ugly-up" the story of their creation. Because it's their story and they deserve the most enchanting kind, regardless of whether or not we'll be able to offer the "Fairy Tale" ending.

It's time to put the focus where it should be...on our two precious miracles, our moo and boo...our forever you and me. The most important part of us that will always be meant to be...a we.

Monday, October 13, 2008

Brenda Lambert, Mark Cook, Monday4 the Missing

I understand the family leaving it in the hands of God.
If He calls the stars by name, I know He knows
every name of
every missing person
Law Enforcement nor anyone else in West Virginia will never do
anything to find our precious sister, so we are leaving this to God"
Keep the faith!

Sunday, October 12, 2008

Shattered Pieces of Spousal Abuse

In light of Domestic Violence Awareness Month, I am sharing this more personal post of the story of me.

Once Upon A Time...there was a Little Me...So innocent, so fragile...so pure...

Perfectly created, perfectly shiny...perfectly new...

Perfect neat or naughty...perfect messy, perfect happily just being me...

Such a free little girl who danced through her life, giggling without reason, loving without hesitation, trusting without any reason not to...perfectly loved in an unconditional way...perfectly safe, perfectly protected from what someday would come my way.

Free to imagine how great I'd become, to daydream almost always, to be scared of the night and terrified of forever...free to be silly, free to spill my milk, to sometimes be flighty, usually messy and often late...a fragile piece of blown clear glass with nothing to hide, nor to hide from...free to be perfectly imperfect me.

One day older plus many days more...my perfect, some older, fragile glass self was gently taken off my safe shelf.

And my happy go lucky, ignorant youth, happily skipped into a far from perfect, fallen world.

So I got chipped a little, scratched a lot, but polished up quickly without too much harm due...until...there was you.

Did you notice my beauty then, the first time we met? How truly transparent I was? I had nothing to hide then nor anything yet built up on me to hide it with...do you remember how pristine the glass was before the first time you touched me?

And...I can't help but wonder...did a part of you ever pause before you put that first smudge on me? Did you not know then how ugly you'd find the dirty, cracked glass of your creation? Or had you always planned to break your promise to be ever so gentle with easily breakable, delicate me?

And the last time you left me, when right before you left...well, why didn't you just leave? Why did you first have to find me...to hurt me again.

You grabbed me from that dusty shelf that I was hiding on, why did you hate me? You eagerly, almost with pleasure shook me and then you...you smashed me on the floor.

I used to wonder...what made you so mad at me? Whatever was it that made you not even want me enough to keep kicking me around? Of course then I remember, the word that I said, to bring on even greater rage from you...you really don't like it all, do you?...When someone says 'STOP' to you...

So you threw me and I violently crashed...I exploded, I shattered...you decided to put an end to my story that day. The delicate work of clear blown glass, the little me I once was...now just a million different pieces of sharp and jagged glass, each one bleeding their own unique shade...right there, where you left me, upon the dirty floor. Did you ever consider pausing before you quickly walked away? Did you ever think about cleaning up that mess that you had made?

But you don't write my whole life's story and it wasn't your decision to say The End.

So the millions of pieces of shattered glass upon the floor each now displaying the millions of forever stained shades from the colors they bled before...they got up, they moved on, they live now, so damn much better than before.

Did you think that I'd just be swept up, quickly thrown away? Did you think that was the last of the once prized trophy you tried to destroy that day?

And now...if you could see me, how stunned you'd truly be, so taken aback by my intricate beauty, by the better me, now me. It's really quite a miracle, it even surprises myself...to live my cherished presence, to love who I am today...because, well...there's just so much more to me now, in part because you smashed me to the floor that day. Who would have thought, not you, I'm sure...the result of your destruction...would end up blooming into something greater than we could have ever imagined?

Don't get me wrong, it wasn't easy and it took more than just me...to create this breathtaking showpiece that you still most likely just haven't the sight to see. I've finally come into myself, more so of who God always intended me to be...only His Design could turn a million shattered pieces into a whole, complete...perfectly perfect me.

And now...when the light shines through me, the colors that I once bled...they reflect a million different shades of light...an iridescent mix of me, the reflection of how I choose to display the entirety of me.

Sometimes, this gift, this light...it shines outside of me, magically finding and seeking the darkened paths of those most in need. And I am so blessed to have this light, to be able to share it...the joy, the gift to do so...well, to you...I can't explain, but...it gives back so much more, makes such an even brighter me!

So that's me...perfectly imperfect. The clear, transparent glass you once destroyed now lives out loud with so much to give, reflecting God, shining forth His Grace in a myriad of amazing, most colorful ways...

It's just..beautiful...and...It's Me!


Perfectly Imperfect Mosaic Me

by Sara Huizenga Lubbers

Thursday, October 9, 2008

My Journey to Peace with PTSD

I nearly accidentally stumbled upon this radio show segment and cannot begin to express how meaningful the words I heard have become to me. PTSD, is a very real thing to the loved ones of the missing and targets of abuse, not an incredible amount of people really understand what it's like to live a life with PTSD. (PTSD = Post Traumatic Stress Disorder)

So anyway, PLEASE check it out...I hope your hearts will be touched with healing from what you hear...mind was... ;)



Excellent Interview with Lady Cerelli, author of My Journey to Peace with PTSD. Insightful look into Post Traumatic Stress Disorder as well as effective treatment methods.

"Peace with PTSD" was founded by Lady Spirit Moon Cerelli, Author, Speaker and Workshop Presenter, to assist those with PTSD, and other stress-related behavior disorders, find a comfortable place to inquire about the information available on PTSD. Diagnosis of PTSD begins with a medical history and physical exam, based on a person's symptoms. We create funds for "Peace with PTSD" by selling educational materials and providing lectures and workshops.

Wednesday, October 8, 2008

Social Media for Non Profits


Gnomedex Presentation

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Fatal Fallout, Coping With Crime

WHAT HAPPENED
In 1982, columnist Issac Bailey's brother Herbert "Moochie" Bailey Jr. was charged in the stabbing death of James Bunch, a former Bonneau city councilman. Bailey recently spoke for the first time about the slaying with the victim's family, as well as his own, for a six-part series that explores the lingering effects of murder on the families of the victims and the accused.



This series explores the effect of crime from the perspective of not only the victim's family, but the family of the convicted. It is a raw look at how in a moment's notice, so many lives are changed, some for the better, some for the worse.

Monday, October 6, 2008

Tom Starkel, Monday4 the Missing

by Mammabear, Lost Faces of the Missing

Tom Starkel was a very special young man in my life who disppeared off the face of the earth back in Dec. 1979, Its been a very long time but I've never given up hope of finding him justice!!! someone out there knows what happen that night..

I found the above message posted on
Missing Pieces Official Message Board
That's almost 30 years Missing! A lot can happen in a 30 year span. People wed, and/or have children. Some make their fortune, while others loose everything. Time just moves on along, as usual. At least time moves forward for some people.
For others, time is nothing more than a standstill limbo. Sure, they go through the motions of being here, 'in the now.' Yet in reality, they are faced with that one haunting question... and in Hollyjean's case, her question for almost 30 years has been "What Happened to Tom Starkel?"


http://mymilkcarton.org

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Featuring Missing Persons. Each Monday a different missing person will be featured on a number of blogs. If you would like to make a commitment to give a missing person exposure on your blog, please contact us at monday4themissing@gmail.com

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Saturday, October 4, 2008

Young Single Missing Mother ~ Melanie Metheny

To further put pressure on the "someone" who must know what happened to Melanie Metheny, CUE Center from Wilmington, NC has erected a billboard with Melanie's information on it in hopes of finding a resolution to this case for her family. After erecting a billboard in Whiteville, NC, within 2 weeks there was a break in the case of Carol Dowless, someone came forward, and she was found after 3 years. We hope that the same answers can come for the Metheny family and that 3 children will have answers.

http://www.findmelanie.com/
http://www.charleyproject.org/cases/m/metheny_melanie.html
http://missingpiecesshow.homestead.com/MissingPiecesEpisode47Archive.html
http://wowktv.com/story.cfm?func=viewstory&storyid=12553
http://www.ncmissingpersons.org/CUE Center
There is a letter on the family website of Melanie Metheny that her family discovered among her belongings that they didn't even know was there. At the end of the letter Melanie writes the following:
Being a single mom is not easy at all but watching my kids grow up and watching them learn new things is the greatest feeling that I ever had. I would not change them for the world and I don't know where I'd be right now if I didn't have them but I know my life wouldn't have as much meaning.
After reading those words lovingly put down on paper by Melanie Metheny, there can be no question in the reader's mind that she did not drop them off at day care on the morning of July 19, 2006 and walk away into a new life. Something has happened to Melanie and someone knows exactly what that something is.
Melanie had a lot to look forward to in her life and in the lives of her children.
The family has not given up, and will not give up, looking for her.